Sunday, November 21, 2010

beer



I'm so far behind — still thinking about last weekend. Not to mention last week, last month, last year. It's hard to look forward when there's so much behind. More and more is behind rather than ahead all the time, making it harder and harder to focus on the glass half full, as it's less than half full, though no less yummy, but anyway ...

There we were — Mr. Betty and I — down on Thames Street last Saturday night, though it could have been Friday or even Sunday for that matter, as all three nights featured "Deer Tick" at the Blues CafĂ©.

"They're a pretty big deal," according to Super Son, who knows his music.

"But are we going to feel old, ridiculous and out of place?" I asked him, having caught him (for once) on his cell phone in his distant city as we pondered buying tickets to hear this Providence-based band who made quite a splash at the Folk Festival two summers ago. "And will we like the music?"

Must admit, the latter was less concerning than the former.

"Yeah, they're pretty mellow."

So we showed up early (how geriatric), as we wanted a good seat. The "kids" wouldn't take seats; they'd crowd around the stage, as kids do, to get as close as they could. But we figured we'd be better off — more comfortable in every sense — upstairs looking down through a square, center well onto the stage. And, to do that, we needed to snag a bar stool. To establish (accept?) our place.

First a beer — Newport Storm, of course — then a bar stool.

We weren't alone. There were other "grown-ups" upstairs: parents of band members by the looks things, those things being mouthed words, anticipated notes, waving arms, barely contained enthusiasm. I totally got it, as Super Son and his friends once had a band — now defunct (sigh) — and I, too, knew every word, every note (still do) and could barely contain my enthusiasm, to the point that I suspect it may have embarrassed Super Son on occasion, and to this day listening to their music makes me dance around the kitchen ...

Yes, it was a little weird looking down on the whole scene: down on the instruments, the hands playing the instruments, the hands reaching for odd-looking bottles of Bud between numbers, the hands drumming the beat in the air, the hands waving in the air, the hands writhing (no other word for it) to the groove of the guitarist/singer whose hands were covered in tattoos. Things grew more steamy as the night wore on ...

We liked it (!), though we didn't stay 'til the very end; at some point, we wove our way downstairs and toward the door about the time the guitarist called his mom up on the stage to share a nice moment as the crowd warmly cheered ...













It bears repeating every once in a while (I think): images get bigger if you click on them.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

19 (and a half)


Remember when ages were counted in halves?? That half-year was important. It put us in another whole age category, and we were so eager to get there. We couldn't wait to get there. We may even have added "and a half" before it was mathematically correct; it may have been only a third.

The older we get, of course, the less that "and-a-half" matters. Or the less we wish to announce it. I'll be 49 'til the very second I turn 50, thank you very much.

And I'm sure I'll feel the same as I ramp up to 60 ...

Anyway, revisiting the impressions of last time (if that's allowed), I wanted to fill in a few gaps, as there were more sights than I originally recalled. There always are. En route from Newport to Tiverton via boat on Saturday, Mr. Betty and I passed under all three bridges — that much is true. But did I mention that before we headed North we headed South? We thought, given relatively windless conditions, it'd be a fine day for going around the outside: beyond Brenton Point, past the reef, along Ocean Drive and the beaches, around Sachuest Point, up the Sakonnet.

But just as we passed Castle Hill — with all its empty chairs that were full of summer visitors just yesterday, or so it seems — and the vessel started bobbing and bouncing like a hobby horse in significant swells, Mr. Betty said, "It's lumpier than I expected."

So we turned and went the other way: up the bay.

And did I mention the shiny, new, impressive & inexplicably long ramp at Ann Street Pier? The leaves? The feeling of putt-putting out the harbor for the last time 'til next season? The revelation that aircraft carriers are BIG? As are wind turbines and the only skyscraper on our horizon (at Carnegie Abbey) but unlike Mount Hope — not the bridge, but the mount, which is more of a bump? The bumpers, for that matter? The ongoing construction over the Sakonnet? What's the name of that new bridge again? Then there's the old stone bridge-that's-no-longer-a-bridge for which I couldn't remember the name (Old Stone Bridge?). How 'bout the fact that we very nearly didn't fit under the last little bridge into Nanaquaket Pond?

I didn't think so. I was too focused on getting there, wherever "there" is. And, I dare say, it's nowhere in particular. Or maybe it's just a different place for everyone.

One thing that isn't different (I don't think) is the impression, with so much lying behind us, that time flew ...










That is Mount Hope, isn't it?? Hoping to be ... bigger??







But smaller can be better (e.g. for flying under the radar) ...




Sunday, November 14, 2010

19


I had every intention of gathering a few thoughts about the weekend — what a beauty! — but ran out of time. Maybe tomorrow. Meanwhile, I just spoke with Darling Daughter, age 19, who's in the midst of choosing courses for next semester and deciding her major, and it brought to mind a boat ride Mr. Betty and I took on Saturday. We passed under all three bridges separating Aquidneck Island from the mainland (i.e., Rhode Island from Providence Plantations) in the process of taking our happy little boat from Newport — where the harbor is looking really empty — to Tiverton for her long winter's nap. And we were zipping past a buoy all too quickly just like we zip past most things all too quickly or maybe just without thinking about them sufficiently when I saw something and said, "Wait, turn around, go back!!" And we did.

If only one could really go back ...





Wednesday, November 10, 2010

glow


There's just something about that late afternoon glow. Even things that aren't particularly beautiful become beautiful in the end-of-day light, as things turn to night. And it's happening so much earlier lately; it was happening even before the change — the time change — i.e., it's not just that extra hour that's costing us some daylight (I'd so much rather save daylight), but the general seasonal trend.

So, the other day — as I was standing at the kitchen sink presumably doing dishes but really just looking out the window as the sky turned the most appealing shades of orange and yellow and pink such that everything at terrestrial level was quasi-reflecting the same orange and yellow and pink (however that works) — I found myself running out the door and down the hill to catch it. To catch what?? The light. Yeah, right ...

I didn't even say 'bye to Mr. Betty; I just left. And I got caught in the dark before I was through — I ended up way down Washington Street in The Point, where I arrived just in time to catch the lights switch "on" on the bridge. It's kinda cool to be present at that precise moment. It happens every night, of course, but how often does one catch it?? How often does one try??

And then I walked home, more slowly now, on the outside looking in to the glow emitting from kitchens, living room lights, assorted sights ...










Sunday, November 7, 2010

hindsight


Everything is upside down;
everything used to be so simple.

I know that's not true — and it makes me sound really old to say such a thing (akin to saying "those were the days") — but that's how stuff seems in hindsight, doesn't it?? At least that's what I was thinking the other day as I rode my bike back from Sachuest Point against a very stiff breeze along that long, straight stretch beside the beach before shifting gears to climb the short, steep, bend up Purgatory toward home.




Except I wasn't ready to go home quite yet, so I pulled into the vast (and even more vast without cars) parking lot at Second Beach to peer through some beat-up (played??) volleyball nets ...



... and then again at First Beach to ponder a bit more upside-down and/or empty and/or played stuff. There's nothing emptier (that I can think of at this moment) than an empty playground. The whole town is somewhat of an empty playground at present ... not that empty is all bad. And the playground isn't entirely empty (click below to see what I mean).


It's late — despite that extra hour's sleep — so I can't get into it any further, not that it warrants getting into. Suffice it to say: It strikes me as all-too-true what they say about hindsight.

And maybe (maybe) it's important to note that there's no sign saying "kids only" at the playground ...